A message of love lost…. what an amazing thing communication between two person can be.
Always observed the perils of communication between lovers and between couples. What makes a bumpy road for them, no matter what the relationship inbetween is either the lack of communication or too much communication. With these two scenarios both parties know where they stand…but the most lethal that i have seen yet, is miscommunication…coming to a point where you would rather let it fall, leave it to die rather than try to make the other person understand what it was all about…thats the place of danger….you don’t come back from that point on.
It is said “An arrow once thrown and a word once spoken can never be taken back”, i realise to my horror that ominous as the above statement might sound…it is as true as the daylight that we live and breath in. Scientifically looking at the scenario of miscommunication, you can draw the analogy of a chain reaction happening…one word uttered can lead to something menacing…the result of that coupled by your brain patterns and insecurities or troubles from the present world…all rolled up in a ball of anger, can errupt and wash away all that is held dear and close to the heart.
Its a shame how we humans forget the love shared, the understanding developed, the laughter shared…as time fly. I dont know how the heart that loves you and you know loves you from its very core, can deliberately hurt you…and not just that..it actually utilises the knowledge gained from the time spent together, the insecurities shared and the confidences given against you. It all sounds very sinister i know but i have seen it happening right in front of my eyes…something you cannot close your eyes to….as it stares you in the face and demands acknowledgement.
Between yourself and the other person now there are words and distorted meanings…your external circumstances make you tough and unyielding…maybe resentful….the case is the same with the other party as well. …
I would not be with that person, would not be having converstaion, would not be able to speak….and surely would not be able to love!
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